Do you beat yourself up when your client is not making progress?
Hey Clinicians! Let’s be real about this! How many of us start to believe, that we’re not a “good enough therapist,” when our clients are getting worse, or not making much progress?
We got into this field with our passion to help people! We honestly believe that people come to therapy, to work on their issues and to get better. But how many clients have you seen, that are resistant to change, or refuse to “do the work” needed to change or heal? I’m guessing that the number is quite high over time…
When we overly identify as our role as a Clinician, our self confidence “takes a hit.” We start to question our skills and our experience. We wonder if this is the right career choice… And then we compare ourselves to our Colleagues who seem so confident and they have raving reviews by their clients! I’m here to tell you, that yes you can return back to your confidence, so you can do your best work! It takes time, effort and patience but you can totally do it!
Hey Clinicians, we don’t need to stay stuck in this limited scarcity mindset. I know you’ve worked so hard to be in this field! You once had the confidence to do this hard work. I know you can regain your confidence, with the right support! As a coach and consultant to Clinicians, I’m here to build you back up, so you can return to your passion in helping people!
Here’s 3 tips to keep your confidence up:
Don’t beat yourself up! When you do this, it only makes things worse for you. Remind yourself of your strengths and why you got into this field. Be proud of your accomplishments!
Remember that you’re a human first! No matter the importance your “title” holds to you, it’s just a title. And it’s a role you’re in, with your clients. But being a Clinician is not the only thing, that “makes you uniquely you!”
Remind yourself that we cannot control the outcome with our clients. If they don’t put in the effort to create change, it’s “on them,” not us! Take a step back and hold them accountable.
Whatever you do be kind to yourself! This is not an easy career, with having many “ups and downs!” You can return to your passion helping people, as long as you’re working on your confidence and managing your anxiety, when you’re dealing with difficult clients.
If you’re struggling with your confidence, reach out to me for 1-1 coaching sessions!